The Day That I Stood Still..!!

There are certain moments in life, where you just think that life has just taken a pause & only you can feel what is really happening around you. Even when you're really happy you seem to think that or you wish that, life should pause at that moment & you want to live it completely. I believe, there is a need of such moments or that "pause" moment in our lives. Well, actually the reality is, when that moment comes you really begin to see & feel, what exactly going around you, because all the other times, you're in a hustle doing this, doing that & you seem to forget that what is going around you or behind you, what are people talking about you. Well, i'm a believer that don't think about what others talk about you but still you cannot let others talks rubbish about you, you know this thing, that let them talk "It means you're one step ahead or making you famous", these type of thinking & saying only look good in movies, not in real life. If someone says, that you've done something bad to somebody & that person is spreading rumours about you, you need to confront it not just sit & see about it. You need to pause & see what you can do.

But, what to do when you don't get this moment? Umm, that's like a hard question, as life give this moment to all of us. Like, this title, you can see, it states that the day "I" stood still. So, i think i should talk about me.. :P

Yesterday, just an ordinary day as my college  has just ended & form 2 weeks now i'm just sitting idle & was just chilling, nothing else & i get a call, which i didn't thought that would just jolt me & would freeze that moment for me. I just, figured out that my result has come. My heart just skipped a beat. I just got ready & went to my college & i see happy faces. I moved forward to the bulletin board, i thought there'll be no surprises & when i saw my name there, again that pause moment came into my life & after 5 mins, i saw my jumping in the air & screming the college's corridors. I felt like, dancing, but couldn't as all people would laugh then. Haha, i think, the thing i told you was not the thing as big as, some moments in life in which you feel, that moment should pause & you can correct what you've done or you could just enjoyy this moment, a little more. That's why, if you feel, that your life is in a "Pause" stage, make that moment count, do what you feel that can corrected or than can be enjoyed.

Have Fun..!! Live your life, to the fullest..!! Keep smiling always..  :)

Would really like to hear, what you feel..  :)

The Forgotten..!!

In life, we all want to save all the good moments that we have witnessed till the day we are alive & we want all the good people to stick to us, till the very end. But, has anybody ever wondered, Did we really had all the good persons with us?? No..!! People, tend to forget that, the people who are with them, at the given point of time is only because they love them. What about those, who really cared for us? Who never went onto sleep at night, because you didn't had your dinner, But, it's in the human mentality, that we corner the person who care for us, for the person, who we care about. I still remember, one of my friend was really annoyed at a friend of her's as her friend kept on bugging her to eat something & even told me to please give her something to eat because her health was not good, but when for the 5th time she called & said that, she just shouted on her that leave her alone, she can take of herself & blahh!! blahh!! & on the other side, She is talking to her boyfriend that she is so hungry that she cannot find a thing here to eat & calling him to take him out for lunch. First of all, i thought of giving a tight slap to her face to what she did, then i realised, that we take things for granted, we never think that how precious things we have in life, even choosing the people around us.

People say, WHAT TO DO??, I say, People, who feel like they have care for someone so mucch, has given them so much of their time & everything & still you get is nothing. Then, their is no point of maintaining that friendship with that person. What is the point of that friendship, where you don't get that sense of respect, that you've giving & getting nothing, instead of ignorance. Some would say how can we just forget them, i just say to them, Don't forget them, just maintain some distance from them, you cannot forget them, completely. That's the rule of life, once you've made someone part of your life, to an extent where you tell everything to that person, it's impossible to forget them. But, try to maintain some distance from them & still care for them. We should not get sad. Because it was not your fault, even after loving them so much, if you still get a cold behaviour, then it's better to just sit on a side & watch, you cannot do anything else. Remember, you were not put on this earth to entertain someone. Care for them, Love them but do not watch them, make you feel like a clown.. & remember if you do something like this with anybody, one day, someone would do the same to you & that day you'll feel, what it feels like to be secluded by someone you cared..!! Just remember, if someone cares for you, hold them tightly.. Don't let them go, because if you won't, you might end up getting nothing..!! Never disrespect someone's feelings..!! & You, yes you, never let someone take advantage of you, let that person, treat you like Okay, he is here, So, what??
In the End, i would only like to say that:

Cheer up..!! Live your life happily..!! Keep Smiling Always..!!  Love & Care for those who deserve it..!! :)

Regards,
Aayush

Do tell me, What you feel?? I'll be happy to hear you..  :)

The First One..!!

Well, if you may know, that this is my 3rd blog & the first two are giving me all the strength to write more & more. So, i decided why not write about myself, well not entirely on myself, but also the people around me & all the happenings of my life, whether good or bad, happy or not-so-happy. Life doesn't had to be taken so hard that we keep on forgetting the  life's most important thing given to us i.e., "Happiness". Well, many months ago, i heard a guy saying that "He cannot be happy because he lost his loved one, not died or something, but his love went away from him", I know it's not easy to get back into your system when, loved go away from you. But, that's all part of the living, you cannot wait for things to get bad again. If he/she left you, it means, you were not destined to be with him/her. Yes, I believe in Destiny. Some would say you should be practical, but sometimes it is better to believe that some thing drives us & make us craving for wanting more good in our lives.

Well, i know-i know, it's easier said than done, but why to sit alone everytime & keep on cursing your"life". I know, it feels hurt when you get some bad moments in your life, but you keep on cursing your life for those moments, but you never said "Thankyou" to your life, when something big thing happened in your life which changed your landscape of life for good. Their is a quote i read somewhere, it says "In the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away". So, we gotta enjoy everything. That doesn't mean that i haven't faced anything in my life, there were moments in my life when i got secluded, i never felt that i can come back to the real world as the same guy, i was earlier. But, due to good company of good people & strong thoughts in my mind, i took myself up & came up in life. The thing we need to remember that it's "LIFE" you have "Great" moments & "Bitter" moments & they both are equally important for us because, if you won't feel bitter moments, you cannot cherish the feeling of joy & happiness to its core. You will never value it. Each day, everyone of us experience somethings that are new to us, it can be anyting, playing football for the 1st time, watching a musical concert, riding a bicycle, reading a great book, even a small baby gliding his or hand to your face etc., even these little things can change your life to a great extent. Enjoy the little things in your life. Good-Bad, Happiness-Sadness, these things are opposite of each other, if there would be good, bad things would also be there but, it;s destiny, that what life gives you first. We always get what we deserve at that point of time, But in the end, we all have happy endings & in the end you get what you deserved & not more, not less from that. So, Enjoy your life, keep fighting the battle & believe that you're gonna win.  :)

Adios..!! Take Care..!!  :)