In life, we all want to save all the good moments that we have witnessed till the day we are alive & we want all the good people to stick to us, till the very end. But, has anybody ever wondered, Did we really had all the good persons with us?? No..!! People, tend to forget that, the people who are with them, at the given point of time is only because they love them. What about those, who really cared for us? Who never went onto sleep at night, because you didn't had your dinner, But, it's in the human mentality, that we corner the person who care for us, for the person, who we care about. I still remember, one of my friend was really annoyed at a friend of her's as her friend kept on bugging her to eat something & even told me to please give her something to eat because her health was not good, but when for the 5th time she called & said that, she just shouted on her that leave her alone, she can take of herself & blahh!! blahh!! & on the other side, She is talking to her boyfriend that she is so hungry that she cannot find a thing here to eat & calling him to take him out for lunch. First of all, i thought of giving a tight slap to her face to what she did, then i realised, that we take things for granted, we never think that how precious things we have in life, even choosing the people around us.
People say, WHAT TO DO??, I say, People, who feel like they have care for someone so mucch, has given them so much of their time & everything & still you get is nothing. Then, their is no point of maintaining that friendship with that person. What is the point of that friendship, where you don't get that sense of respect, that you've giving & getting nothing, instead of ignorance. Some would say how can we just forget them, i just say to them, Don't forget them, just maintain some distance from them, you cannot forget them, completely. That's the rule of life, once you've made someone part of your life, to an extent where you tell everything to that person, it's impossible to forget them. But, try to maintain some distance from them & still care for them. We should not get sad. Because it was not your fault, even after loving them so much, if you still get a cold behaviour, then it's better to just sit on a side & watch, you cannot do anything else. Remember, you were not put on this earth to entertain someone. Care for them, Love them but do not watch them, make you feel like a clown.. & remember if you do something like this with anybody, one day, someone would do the same to you & that day you'll feel, what it feels like to be secluded by someone you cared..!! Just remember, if someone cares for you, hold them tightly.. Don't let them go, because if you won't, you might end up getting nothing..!! Never disrespect someone's feelings..!! & You, yes you, never let someone take advantage of you, let that person, treat you like Okay, he is here, So, what??
In the End, i would only like to say that:
Cheer up..!! Live your life happily..!! Keep Smiling Always..!! Love & Care for those who deserve it..!! :)
Regards,
Aayush
Do tell me, What you feel?? I'll be happy to hear you.. :)
People say, WHAT TO DO??, I say, People, who feel like they have care for someone so mucch, has given them so much of their time & everything & still you get is nothing. Then, their is no point of maintaining that friendship with that person. What is the point of that friendship, where you don't get that sense of respect, that you've giving & getting nothing, instead of ignorance. Some would say how can we just forget them, i just say to them, Don't forget them, just maintain some distance from them, you cannot forget them, completely. That's the rule of life, once you've made someone part of your life, to an extent where you tell everything to that person, it's impossible to forget them. But, try to maintain some distance from them & still care for them. We should not get sad. Because it was not your fault, even after loving them so much, if you still get a cold behaviour, then it's better to just sit on a side & watch, you cannot do anything else. Remember, you were not put on this earth to entertain someone. Care for them, Love them but do not watch them, make you feel like a clown.. & remember if you do something like this with anybody, one day, someone would do the same to you & that day you'll feel, what it feels like to be secluded by someone you cared..!! Just remember, if someone cares for you, hold them tightly.. Don't let them go, because if you won't, you might end up getting nothing..!! Never disrespect someone's feelings..!! & You, yes you, never let someone take advantage of you, let that person, treat you like Okay, he is here, So, what??
In the End, i would only like to say that:
Cheer up..!! Live your life happily..!! Keep Smiling Always..!! Love & Care for those who deserve it..!! :)
Regards,
Aayush
Do tell me, What you feel?? I'll be happy to hear you.. :)
Hey Aayush!!! First off, I really need to apologise for having commented so belatedly on your awesome trio of blogs ;) Having said that, there couldn't have been a better post to comment on than this ^_^
ReplyDeleteTrue words. We take people for granted, and it's so strange that we are taken for granted as well... If you think about it, it feels like a whole cycle, a person takes me for granted, my care and my affection and I feel hurt. At the same time, as part of a hypocritical human nature that we all share, we take someone else in our life for granted...
It's the way we perceive things... I do that a lot. People care for me and I'm essentially a kid, so they always keep telling me stuff, do this, do that, eat on time, take meds etc etc, but the thing is, instead of being thankful and thinking that there are people who care for me, I get annoyed... I guess the problem is, we don't understand the difference between someone who cares and someone who just butts in your life and tells you how to live your life.
It's easier to preach people and give justifications, so having said all ^ I'll tell you that I am working on it, to appreciate what I have, the people that I have and to acknowledge their care, because like you said, in the end, we all want to be surrounded by good people, but we should be good enough for those good people, no?
:) Keep writing! Keep smiling!!
Preetika..!! first of all i would like to thankyou for telling in public that you have done like this, you need guts to tell this in public..!! :)
DeleteYou are right, it's a cycle... You care for someone.. this nd that & one day they find someone else & boom, you're out of the picture & it feels like, what happened that, he or she did that, its just ignorance..!! But, nice people like us, learn from this & still live our lives happily.. :) <3