Most of the people would feel, what kind of title is this..?? Well, they can be right at their part, as we have only thought of going out on a date with other people. Sometimes, it's better to go on a date with yourself too. Do a reality check on yourself. A very dear friend of mine, who is working in some MNC, i saw him everyday getting ready for his office, but somedays, he would look like he has put on his clothes straight after coming out of the bed. But, sometimes he would look like a prince, who is all dressed up to see his princess in the royal kingdom of "Far Far Away". My curiosity, for asking him, that why somedays he looks awesome & while, on the other day he looks hopeless, i got an which i had in my mind, he said "The day when he is well dressed is because that day his girlfriend would come & has lunch with him, so mean like a date." I said, well that was an obvious answer. But, then a question striked to me & i asked him that what if your girlfriend surprise you by visiting your office when you're dressed, im sorry to say, "Awfully", he began to think what answer he should give.
Well, i had nothing against him, i say he can do whatever he wants to do & whatever he wants to wear, but why only we people dress superbly, while we are on a date with someone. Like, on a date we dress up so nicely, trying to look the best we can to the other person & we act in a way that our best is shown to the person who is sitting infront of us. But, why do we keep forgetting this in our normal days, in every moment of our lives. Another friend of mine, who works in a Call Centre, spends highly on his girlfriend, like for non-sense things but still spends highly & gets a salary of 15000 per month & not qualifying for MBA too, but still wears clothes which costs a fortune & also buys for his girlfriend, i said to him, "That if he would have studied better & not just ran before clothes & girlfriend, he would be having a much better life, that he has now". On other days, we wear almost anything, most of us even wear underwear with holes in them, this particularly follows for boys. Why cannot we behave like we behave when we go out for a date, on normal days? Like, when we are on a date, we go to an expensive restaurant, we sit & speak so gently with the waiters & even say thankyou & sorry to them, while on the other days, you are continuously screaming at them for getting late in serving of food, even when you know, that the dish you've ordered takes double the time but still you just scream & scream. When we are on a date, we first place a napkin on our thighs that shows how much table manners we have, while on the other days, we don't even see when something gets dropped on our clothes & we don't even care. Most important, how we try listen carefully to our date when he speaks but we dominate when we talk with our family.
By staging all these facts, which i've seen & some which i've only felt not seen, i seem to have make this conclusion that we look our best when we are on a date. But, i feel so-so sorry for the people, who are not our soulmates or we say, girlfriend's & boyfriend's, because we take them for granted. You need to be at your Best, everytime, to make a great impression on everyone. Anyone can fall in love with you, if you stay like that & then, you don't have to pretend to be someone else.
Just Be, who you are..!! LIVE LIFE FREELY & HAPPILY..!! KEEP SMILING ALWAYS..!!
"I would love to hear from all of you, what you think..!"
Well, i had nothing against him, i say he can do whatever he wants to do & whatever he wants to wear, but why only we people dress superbly, while we are on a date with someone. Like, on a date we dress up so nicely, trying to look the best we can to the other person & we act in a way that our best is shown to the person who is sitting infront of us. But, why do we keep forgetting this in our normal days, in every moment of our lives. Another friend of mine, who works in a Call Centre, spends highly on his girlfriend, like for non-sense things but still spends highly & gets a salary of 15000 per month & not qualifying for MBA too, but still wears clothes which costs a fortune & also buys for his girlfriend, i said to him, "That if he would have studied better & not just ran before clothes & girlfriend, he would be having a much better life, that he has now". On other days, we wear almost anything, most of us even wear underwear with holes in them, this particularly follows for boys. Why cannot we behave like we behave when we go out for a date, on normal days? Like, when we are on a date, we go to an expensive restaurant, we sit & speak so gently with the waiters & even say thankyou & sorry to them, while on the other days, you are continuously screaming at them for getting late in serving of food, even when you know, that the dish you've ordered takes double the time but still you just scream & scream. When we are on a date, we first place a napkin on our thighs that shows how much table manners we have, while on the other days, we don't even see when something gets dropped on our clothes & we don't even care. Most important, how we try listen carefully to our date when he speaks but we dominate when we talk with our family.
By staging all these facts, which i've seen & some which i've only felt not seen, i seem to have make this conclusion that we look our best when we are on a date. But, i feel so-so sorry for the people, who are not our soulmates or we say, girlfriend's & boyfriend's, because we take them for granted. You need to be at your Best, everytime, to make a great impression on everyone. Anyone can fall in love with you, if you stay like that & then, you don't have to pretend to be someone else.
Just Be, who you are..!! LIVE LIFE FREELY & HAPPILY..!! KEEP SMILING ALWAYS..!!
"I would love to hear from all of you, what you think..!"
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